Non-Monogamous Collective - Deconstructing RA

Cape Town’s non-monogamous community has been growing and our new monthly Non-Monogamous Collective is bringing together a great group of folk with lively interactions and opportunities to learn from one another. This event takes place monthly and all folk exploring open relationships, polyamory, relationship anarchy, swinging and other forms of consensual non-monogamy are welcome regardless on where you are on your journey. WORKSHOP: Deconstructing RA: Creating Structure Beyond Our Default Systems starts at 7.30pm TIME: First Wednesday of the Month. Doors Open 6.00pm - 11.00pm VENUE: Casa Kink Dungeon, 4 Engine Avenue, Montague Gardens DRINKS & SNACKS: Please bring your own drinks and a small plate of snacks to share. There is no food or drinks available for sale. There will be ice, glasses, coffee and tea. BRING: Your curiosity, exploration of non-monogamous relationships, openness to authentic conscious relating and understanding of consent have a home here. If you plan to play bring your play toys, condoms and lube. TICKETS: R100 at www.casakinkza.com/event and at the door Workshop Details: This workshop will explore relationship anarchy (RA) as both philosophy and lived practice. Together, we’ll unpack core principles such as autonomy, intentional communication, and questioning the social assumptions that shape how we relate to one another. Rather than treating RA as the absence of structure, this workshop focuses on how intentional relationships can be built consciously instead of inherited automatically. We’ll look at how we engage with internal biases, learned expectations, and the tension that can arise when those personal values meet real-life dynamics. The discussion will also extend into kink/BDSM and alternative relationship styles; exploring how RA can inform power exchange, negotiated agreements, and alternative relationship structures while maintaining clarity, care, and accountability. Open to both newcomers and experienced practitioners, this space invites honest reflection, practical integration, and shared learning. Whatsapp Chat Group: Please feel free to join our Whatsapp group for non-monogamous folk: https://chat.whatsapp.com/Geg6DeiYIpy1saDBg0bwVN This space is rooted in PRICK consent (Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual, and Kink-aware). Unlike some swinging spaces where consent can be assumed, we maintain a standard where touch, flirtation, and play are always explicitly negotiated. You can enjoy the space without the pressure, groping, or assumptions that sometimes arise elsewhere. Your R100 Entrance fee includes: • 5 hours access to the Dungeon play space. Arrive anytime and stay as long as you wish between 6.00pm and 11.00pm. This is a fully kitted BDSM Dungeon and includes Cuddle Puddle, Social areas, Exhibitionist/Voyeur areas as well as private and semi-private spaces. Whether you've been around a while or are a curious novice, our carefully curated space provide the perfect backdrop for exploration. • An educational topic which might be explored through round table discussion, info sessions, demos or workshops. • Catch up with old friends, meet new ones, discuss and negotiate future play, meet with someone for the first time in a public space and ask questions. Share stories, laughter, and connect with other members of our Kinky Collective. If you have ideas or suggestions for our collective days and topics, please reach out so we can discuss. IMPORTANT DETAILS: Consent and Safety: Our priority is creating a safe and respectful environment. All participants must adhere to the rules of consent and boundaries. BYOT (Bring Your Own Toys): While we will provide some equipment, we encourage you to bring your favorite toys and gear. Age Restriction: This event is strictly 18+ Explicit Exposure: This is an adult only event with sexually explicit displays and play. Both nudity and sexual play are encouraged, but by no means required. It is likely you may encounter kink play in the Dungeon areas. If witnessing overt sexual or kinky behaviour makes you uncomfortable, we would suggest that you remain within the social areas. Play free social space: Our social space is a play-free social zone for those who prefer not to be overly exposed to sex and kink. Please note that you should expect to still see nudity in this space. Intoxication: We have a zero tolerance of intoxicated behaviour. There is an outside space for smoking of tabacco and 420. We strongly discourage play under the influence, and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these. Safer Space: Casa Kink strives to provide a safer space where body positivity and sex positivity are safely celebrated in all their forms, and where people are encouraged to express themselves and their sexuality and relationship structure without fear of judgement or abuse. We provide a safer space and emotional and physical safety are our paramount concerns. Inclusivity: The space is inclusive of all identities, including (but not limited to) sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, race, relationship style, kink preference, religion and culture. Right of Admission is reserved and the organisers decision is final. Consent: We follow Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink (PRICK). Please ensure you undertake negotiation for all plays at our venue and events. Consent can be withdrawn at any point in time, including in the middle of a play. We will have Consent Monitors at the event. Whether you're solo-poly, in an open relationship, exploring for the first time, or just curious, come meet your people